ironside
October 25th, 2000, 09:02 PM
I think I figured out the reason kids are rebellious against there parents.
It has nothing to do with them wanting to be independent,or to learn how to be on there own,I believe its much deeper.
After having my grandson here for the time they were here,was a special time for me.
I found out that my life isn't over as much as I was thinking,with my health problems I was thinking it sure would be easier just to be done with.
well here what I figured out.
Your kids fight you every way they can and argue with you all the time,it for a very simple reason there getting you ready for the day they move out.
now how did I come to that conclusion, easy my grandson and daughter moved back to there own home.
We didn't have any arguments or disagreements
so when they left it was a sad day for me,I got into a major depression and I still have it to some degree.
but it sure was nice to wake up in the mornings and hear him get excited to hurry and see me,watching him smile and shake his arms to get to me is something I wasn't wanting to stop but stop it did.
So now I understand why parents and kids have to fight, its so it easier when they leave home.
you might miss them but your kind of glad that they left.
So the answer to the age old riddle of why you have to fight with your kids,is so your ready to let them go when it time!
I really hope this makes sense and you can understand what I mean.
chris
It has nothing to do with them wanting to be independent,or to learn how to be on there own,I believe its much deeper.
After having my grandson here for the time they were here,was a special time for me.
I found out that my life isn't over as much as I was thinking,with my health problems I was thinking it sure would be easier just to be done with.
well here what I figured out.
Your kids fight you every way they can and argue with you all the time,it for a very simple reason there getting you ready for the day they move out.
now how did I come to that conclusion, easy my grandson and daughter moved back to there own home.
We didn't have any arguments or disagreements
so when they left it was a sad day for me,I got into a major depression and I still have it to some degree.
but it sure was nice to wake up in the mornings and hear him get excited to hurry and see me,watching him smile and shake his arms to get to me is something I wasn't wanting to stop but stop it did.
So now I understand why parents and kids have to fight, its so it easier when they leave home.
you might miss them but your kind of glad that they left.
So the answer to the age old riddle of why you have to fight with your kids,is so your ready to let them go when it time!
I really hope this makes sense and you can understand what I mean.
chris